what i did for love
We are who we are, but that doesn’t mean that we can’t evolve in relationships. Even you're a hormonal, raging lunatic, you do your best.
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Nov 27, 2019
t.hanks
Whenever I feel a case of the "Mehs" coming on, I turn to a trusty word friend: "Wow." It's a spiritual practice that doesn't take much.
Sep 11, 2019
well, now we know
Some of the most powerful healing occurs when you know you're not alone.
Aug 23, 2019
Dances with Wolffs
Dancing with Wolves is great. But Dancing with WOLFFS?! Where to begin...This one's for them.
Jul 30, 2019
a tart and a pie
Celebrating anniversaries reminds you why you chose someone. And, if you're lucky, why you'd keep choosing them again and again.
Jul 24, 2019
o neg
Ever tried a Zero Negativity Challenge? It's surprisingly magical...especially for your sanity.
Jul 22, 2018
the love list
Marriage is a strange phenomenon. While a love contract can be a very helpful way to lay it on the table, here's my take on it.
May 21, 2018
when you're married to IKEA
IKEA is not perfect, but it does a lot of things right. In short, it's kind of the Mother of Relationship Metaphors.
May 14, 2018
people who fear plastic
There are two types of people: People who reuse plastic bags...and people who don't. Caring too much is a blessing and a curse.
Feb 20, 2018
i love those times when
Taking a stroll down memory lane can remind you of just how interesting you are.
Feb 14, 2018
love alignment
Valentine's Day is a great day to focus on relationships. And, like love, relationships are a doozy. But it is the best thing we do.
Dec 29, 2017
a very Wolff holiday
You can learn a lot about a family by how they typically spend their holidays. Here's a window into the Wolff way.
Dec 13, 2017
our family of hammers
My little sis turned 26 last week. It was a glorious celebration...almost as good as a family of hammers.
Dec 12, 2017
bakeaway with me
Time is among the most precious gifts, and perhaps the most painful loss. But, as KVB put it, "You never know where the miracle is."
Dec 4, 2017
sandy grain, i love you.
Ah, love. Four letters, one beautiful beast of a word.
Nov 18, 2017
freaking amazing humans
Humans are freaking amazing. We are a perfect, self-regulating bio-mechanical machine...and utterly lost and clueless 99% of the time.
Oct 27, 2017
how to be a scarface
When a "quick surgery" turns into "you might lose feeling in your face," you learn some great marriage lessons.
Oct 18, 2017
when Plan A means yes
Dating is a crapshoot, but sometimes you find a diamond in the rough. And, sometimes, Plan A is simply "Yes"--even after 9 weeks of dating.
Oct 4, 2017
Papa Wolff Surprise
Yesterday was my dad’s 65th birthday. So, Papa Wolff, this one's for you.
Sep 27, 2017
disappointing Donna Bride
First-time parenting allows you some leeway, but as a first-time wedding planner with no prior experience, you have one shot.
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